Let me explain the title…Why do women ask a married man if there married the second they speak to them. Ill tell you, because women are thinking about sex just as much as men but are afraid to admit it. What does my marital status matter if IM asking how are you doing or a hello? Because there thinking IM not having sex with a married man. Not all women say no to a married man IM just saying your not getting anything whether its a friend or sex easy if your a married man, at least for me.